Let me not drift away from my target

I have no idea how to self-control and how to set limits in 'love', 'friendship' or any other 'game of chance'. Wait a minute what did I call love and friendship? A friend tells me about the importance of setting limits. I am told it is important and that I should think long-term, and be realistic in my approach to these things. Sometimes I have a feeling that may have recently started to drift away from my actual target. I know I should not. Let me try to focus back on my target. Let me focus on my target.