Tuesday, November 14, 2006

Shush...forget about Past...think present & future


I wrote an email to my friend Anil:


"Dear Anil:
Please I desperately need to buy back my past, as a professional and my friend (AND SOMEONE WHO ONLY KNOWS EVERYTHING ABOUT MY PAST) could you please HELP ME?
Regards,
Anil"
Somebody elase told me "YOU ARE NOT RICH ENOUGH TO BUY BACK YOUR PAST".... then there is another idea from my friend Anil. Don't you think he is very clear on the subject and writes to the point. Don't you find his point of view interesting? See he says "present and future" are more beautiful than the "past". Read on...


"My Dear Anil,


What is Past?

Why some one loves Past?

Because

Past was easy as we all have successfully done it, enjoyed it, suffered it, overcome it, availed it, seen it, achieved it, Irrespective of the degree of enjoyment, sufferings and achievements. We even do not clearly remember as if we have enjoyed it fully or it could have been further improved.

So

Past is not some thing to buy back. It is some thing which teaches us, makes us more experienced and capable of differentiating between good and bad, joy & sorrow, achievement or failure, A young person is happier and joyful as he has not much to compare, whatever he does is an achievement. For Example: “When I bought my first LPG gas connection and gas stove I was happier than when I bought 4000 Sq Ft of residential flat at J-1, Kailash Colony - Out of these two achievements the former gave me more happiness and sense of achievement”.

Now does this mean that I should buy another gas stove or should I see future?

Darling, I am not sure what makes you think that past was good and u want to buy back. Past is an examination, which you have already passed and have learnt some lessons out of it and now it looks easier. Whereas present is the examination for which u are undergoing preparation and working hard for it. May be it is looking difficult and the result is uncertain, But that was so in the past also, but we do not remember those difficult time.
Every body in this world is working for the present and future. Past is kept as memories, some good and some bad, some good people we miss, some good decisions taken in the past encourages us to take further decisions and some bad decisions scare us but we must believe in ourselves, we must take care of ourselves, we must think of our own welfare first, thereafter we must believe in our ideas, thoughts and then we must believe in our own people and who are our own people?

The answer is those people whom we have been able to convince about our ideas and thoughts, Lets all work under these thoughts and the present and future would be more beautiful than past. We both would live present and future, while sharing the memories and learning of past.
With this my friend I wish u all the best for the present and future
LET’S HAVE FAITH IN ‘HIM’
Anil

Friday, November 03, 2006

I see 'HIM" in You...


Dear Anil:

To write to a friend we need to have a friend. To fulfill the need to make yourself happy we need a lot of happiness. To get a lot of happiness we have to make everybody happy around us. To have a lot of happy people around us, we have to be happy people ourselves. To become happy people ourselves, we have to love ourselves. To love ourselves we need to understand love. To understand love we need to love as much as possible. To love as much as possible we need lots of people around us. We need God to...
To live, to love
To love, to be loved
To be loved, to care
To care, to share
To share, to give
To give, to get
To get, to not regret
To not regret, to be happy
To be happy, to enjoy
To enjoy, to control
To control, to maintain
To maintain, to be thankful
To be thankful, to Him
To be Him, to wait
To wait, to miss
To miss, to be patient
To be patient, to be optimistic
To be optimistic, to dream
To dream, to shatter
To shatter, to rise again
To rise again, to be hopeful again
To be hopeful again, to do your best
To do your best, n leave the rest(on) "HIM"!
"Him" is my God, Him is what I love, Him is what is there for me everytime I look for Him, Him is what is real God. I see Him in my friends. I want you to know that I see "HIM" in you.
-ANil